today my buddy turns 35. since it’s his special day i thought he deserved a special post. happy birthday buddy!

…well, he turned 35 a little over 5 months ago. i guess better late than never. i had this idea that on his birthday i would write him a post about how great he was and blah, blah, blah and i wouldn’t tell him and then he would get it in his RSS feed and it would make his day cause i’m not very good at saying nice things. so i saved a draft that i meant to beef-up on his birthday, but then his birthday came and went and i tried a bunch of times to write something nice, but it just never came. it seems i have more problems than i thought.

so, 5+ months after the fact, happy birthday buddy j. i can’t really do the mushy stuff, but i can say i love you and i like that you are my husband. you treat me with respect, kindness and love, you are smart and have lots of interesting ideas, you are full of life, wonder and joy and you are a great dad. thanks for being you.